Setting a boundary triggers grief.
Choosing to not be mistreated can mean
loss of connection.
Setting a boundary around a controlling parent,
might mean less contact.
Shedding the part of you that was okay for awhile with how it was,
means you lose the comfortable and predictable feeling.
Journal Prompt: If I set a boundary, I will grieve…
You can set the level
Of boundary and not lose contact.
Absolutely!
You can set a boundary and not lose contact. I think what tends to happen, is grief shows up when there are changes in relationships.