Prompts to bring clarity to your values...

Values are the load-bearing beams that uphold meaning and purpose. In looking for your values, look to your reactions. Reactions reveal values. An easy grab for many is the value of honesty. Without honesty, relationships can fall a part, and with it, they can feel more secure. In this example, there is a reaction in both directions, when the value is at play and when it is nowhere to be found. Journal Prompts: I notice when... Values not at play in my life... I notice relationships change when...

Right on time, a part of you is summoned to be the driver in the context of your current life. Why? Of all your parts–assertive, afraid, isolated, distant, anxious, happy, ambivalent–why does this part take the driver seat right now? Journal Prompts: This context fuels the part that... This part of me hides... Right now my _______ part is driving.

Rather than being a single, stagnant, cemented version of yourself, you are a composite of several selves, each one awakened based on the context.

How reinforcing to leave the present moment when negative experiences like rejection occur. Over time, missing the present becomes a way of being and the spectrum of connection–rejection and acceptance–is missed. Find motivation to stay present by considering what you miss. Journal Prompts: By living in the past I miss... Always considering the future makes the present...