Today marks 13 years since my son Rory died. This year, I’ve grieved him through writing. I am abundantly aware that I am far from the only one robbed and run over by horrendous grief. Yet, I am reminded that suffering is not meant to be endured alone but carried together.
Category: Grief
Feeling Your Way Through Grief, 5
Fragile. Grief is feeling fragile in places you hope to keep sealed and intact. Like trying to hold on to eggs while riding a roller coaster. Journal Prompt: I feel fragile…
Feeling Your Way Through Grief, 4
Guilt. Grief is a magnet for guilt. You feel guilt that you did too little. Guilt that you did too much. Guilt that you survived. Guilt about your feelings, missed opportunities, and mistakes. When these feelings morph to a cemented state of being it chains you to the past and prevents forward movement. Journal Prompt: I feel guilt about…
Feeling Your Way Through Grief, 3
Threatened. Grief pummels emotional stability. Like yoga on a paddle board, the emotional self wobbles through normalcy in the midst of grief. Already uneasy, emotional collapse threatens in harsh comments, the mundane, in mistakes and disappointments, and unnecessary commercials. It's no wonder you keep a distance from your emotions. Why wouldn't you? Journal Prompt: I feel threatened by...
Feeling Your Way Through Grief, 2
Senses. Grief is experienced through your senses–your hearing, sight, smell, taste, and touch. A familiar song. Unexpected fluorescent lights. The smell of Autumn. Bites of cheesecake. The texture of a blanket. What you smell, see, taste, hear, and touch show up in your memory of what has been lost. Use your senses to feel your way through grief. Journal Prompts: My grief sounds like... My grief looks like... My grief smells like... My grief tastes like... My grief feels like...
Feeling Your Way Through Grief, 1
Without. Bobbing in feelings of disconnection and isolation, grieving is learning to live without. It's learning to live without people you intended to live with. It's watching from the outside the experiences you hoped for. It's missing milestones you expected to meet. Journal Prompt: I am learning to live without...
Grief: Journal Prompt 10
When grief is overwhelming, it’s hard to recognize peace. Even if they are short moments, find breaks from grief by allowing your attention to graze peace. My moments of peace are when... Boundaries: Journal Prompt Series Blog Index
Grief: Journal Prompt 9
Grief is both unique to your situation and personalized. For that reason, grief can be extremely isolating and lonely. Prompt: I feel isolated when... Blog Index
Grief: Journal Prompt 8
Grief can make you feel closed. Grief says, "I am well aware of the pain that can exist here. I am not fooled by the flippancy of optimism and hope". Prompt: I feel closed when... Day 9 Boundaries: Journal Prompt Series Blog Index
Grief: Journal Prompt 7
Grief carries an element of surprise. Many months can go by and you can feel untouched by the sadness that once overwhelmed you. And then all of a sudden a bad week turns to high emotions and some repressed aspect of grief splashes you in the face. It can feel defeating to return to difficult … Continue reading Grief: Journal Prompt 7