If i wasn't fixing, I would be...
Category: Avoidance
A Journal Prompt for Relationships
If you want increased emotional equality in your relationship, you must build a tolerance muscle to hold and hear pain. Not fixing pain, not taking responsibility for it, but allowing, inviting, and making space for it. Journal Prompt: I have trouble tolerating...
A Journal Prompt for Acceptance
When you remain fingers clenched to an image of how life is supposed to be, you suffer. You become immobile to flow. Could you broaden the thin margins? Might you open your hands? Journal Prompt: Life was supposed to be...
This Year, I have lost…
This year, I have lost...
Fear, Personified
A story about how fear chases us.
A Journal Prompt for Anger
Anger functions like a distraction. All this construction site energy, and the real story is on the other side of the street, on a bench, ear buds in, and welling up with tears. Journal Prompt: Anger distracts me from...
A Journal Prompt for Boundaries
Communicating boundaries does not equal setting boundaries. Talking, sharing, asking, demanding, this is boundary communicating. This is preparation. Boundaries become something when you take action. Journal Prompt: No action provides...
Anger, 4
unsettled. Anger can bring out unkind parts. The parts of you that are unsettled and unwell. Like your unmerited irritability with a receptionist. Or the flares of judgment with strangers. These moments are pointing to something that needs your attention inside. Journal Prompt: I experience my unsettled and unwell parts when…
Anger, 3
passive. Anger often takes the passive aggressive route, which is to say it shows up indirectly and not toward what you are truly angry about. Like sometimes the trash bag doesn't fit the can correctly and rage shows up. Rage that more fittingly is toward the boundaries that were not respected yesterday. Journal Prompt: ...receives my passive aggressive anger.
Anger, 2
Underneath. Anger positions itself over unearthed emotions. Like disappointment, how it hides behind resentment. Like loneliness, how it loiters inside aggression. Journal Prompt: Under my anger is…