Fair Fights, 6

Intimacy.

When you build a life with someone, you come to know their intimate stories.

Their medical history
Their bathroom stories
Their fears
Their childhood wounds
Their pain

You have all the vulnerability shots on standby. Intimacy has given you power that you ought to set down during conflict.

Using your partner’s vulnerabilities against them in conflict, is unfair at best, at worst, cruel and trust eroding.

Journal Prompt: I need to

Mental Health & Journaling

Brooke James | Marriage & Family Therapist, Writer

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