Depressed because I’m Human not because I’m Mentally Ill

I'm aware of our culture's low tolerance for the uncomfortable. In my experience, there seems to be a fear that drives this low tolerance. The fear of limitations; that we can't fix everything, that it will remain messy, and resolution will not come. This fear seems to keep us in fixing mode and our tolerance low for … Continue reading Depressed because I’m Human not because I’m Mentally Ill →

I Choose to Move On

The vicious cycle of "stuck" holds many hostage with bad memories, mistakes, and regrets. The burden of hurt and pain is genuine. I watch victims work hard to move on. But they struggle, they get trapped. Internal experiences keep them from letting go and moving on; yet I continue to see the desperation to move on and … Continue reading I Choose to Move On →

Anxiety, Part 8: Solutions to Self-Talk

We have come to the last part in the series, I hope you have enjoyed it. Today we are going to end with solutions to self-talk. Similar to last week, I am going to be very practical. Self-talk. Self-talk is often located here on the anxiety cycle: If you didn't catch the first part on … Continue reading Anxiety, Part 8: Solutions to Self-Talk →

Anxiety, Part 4: Self-talk

Just a quick detour from the anxiety cycle: This week I am reminded of the importance of monitoring expectations. Our expectations of ourselves and others are connected to our emotional health. In times of high stress and lots of change, please allow yourself the gift of lowered expectations. This past weekend my family and … Continue reading Anxiety, Part 4: Self-talk →

Anxiety, Part 3: Physical Symptoms

Hacks to manage anxiety are likely to fall short without an understanding of the anatomy of your anxiety. So today I want you to focus on physical symptoms of anxiety. Consider that physical symptoms of anxiety can often go unnoticed. Symptoms can be easily dismissed if they do not occur at the time of the … Continue reading Anxiety, Part 3: Physical Symptoms →

Anxiety, Part 1

I enjoy facilitating therapy groups and helping people develop awareness and skills to manage anxiety. Over the next several weeks, I am going to blog about the major principles of managing anxiety that I teach in my groups. First of all, anxiety is very common. I tend to believe that everyone is on the continuum … Continue reading Anxiety, Part 1 →